You doubt yourself BIG TIME. You try to fool yourself into believing your perfectionistic tendencies will help you, but you know they’re not getting you anywhere. You feel like a fraud (a.k.a. imposter syndrome), and you’re sure everyone thinks that too.
You don’t know how to even get started. You’re stuck trying to figure out the next best steps. And to be brutally honest, you’re wondering if it’s even worth trying.
You’re overwhelmed by it all. Creating kickass content, organizing your ideas in a way that makes sense, and sharing all this online? Uhmmm… I see you doing those dirty dishes instead.
You’re SO tired of feeling this way. You just wish there was some kind of magic confidence pill. Something to help you trust your decisions and help you get to where you want to be:
confidently doing the work you love.
Hey, I’m Josette, and I totally feel you. Those imposter syndrome gremlins are real!
Before becoming a full-time coach and consultant, I was a language teacher-educator. And despite all my qualifications and the positive feedback, I spent most of that career doubting my skills and not believing in my competence. Like so many women out there, my lack of confidence ruled the show. But everything changed once I learned this basic truth:
Confidence comes from evidence.
And this is the truth that comes through all my services, including Social Media for the Soul (link coming soon). This online group coaching program is designed to not only help you feel confident about your ability to share your soul work online but also to help you feel confident about yourself.
And while I can’t give you a magic confidence pill, I’m here to help you discover the next best thing:
the evidence that you can be confident RIGHT NOW.
To you, confidence looks like…
Making decisions without second-guessing yourself. You share your social media posts or launch courses when you’re 80% ready rather than the 150% you usually aim for. And when you DO share, you don’t worry as much about what others think.
Being curious about the unknown, understanding your goals, AND having strategies that are in line with your vision. No more finger biting and sleepless nights! You might even embrace failure! You trust that each step you take is valuable and will get you closer to doing the work you love.
Creating and organizing content that YOU feel happy with. You understand AND appreciate YOUR unique approach to sharing. You feel a sense of ease and energy when sharing your work online.
THIS is the evidence you need to feel confident.
THIS is the evidence I can help you get.
I know it isn’t easy. Trust me. I’m STILL learning.
But confidence comes WAY easier than before. For years, I thought I had to hustle to prove my worth. I’d spend hours planning the perfect lessons and presentations. Losing sleep was better than setting myself up for failure. Then, when I actually did the lesson or workshop, it was never good enough. I’d rack my brain, and lose sleep wondering:
Why the hell did I say that?!
And if I ever received negative feedback? Watch out! I was on the shame train for weeks.
It got so bad, that one day in front of a class of teacher-trainees (ie: my peers), I had an anxiety attack. With sweaty palms and a racing heart, I left the classroom gasping for air. I wasn’t able to finish that lesson or the others on that day. I went home and sobbed in my pillow. That was it. I needed help.
I no longer wanted outside validation or another certificate to prove I was good enough. I needed evidence that I had everything I needed already. I needed to know I could trust myself.
So I dug in deep. I took a hard look at my limiting beliefs, and an honest inventory of my skills and strengths. Then, through the alchemical reaction of the energy work I’d done over the years, and a community-supported exploration of my personal connection to divine feminine principles, I finally had the evidence I needed. And with this evidence, I surrendered control and made one of the most difficult, yet deeply soul-aligned decisions I’ve had to make so far: